Are you having a hard time with your partner and having lots of “sex talk” but still no results? If so, you’re not alone. There are a number of reasons why young people are having less sex today than they did 20 years ago.
It’s probably nothing to do with the economy, but it’s true that more college students are getting jobs away from their home states. Because of this, students are now living in places where there aren’t a lot of dating opportunities.
When most students graduate from college, they will be looking for a great movie, a great meal, or someplace fun to live for the rest of their lives. So instead of having plenty of opportunities to have fun, they will likely be limited by where they live, which can make them less likely to participate in casual sex.
“Hey, your parents are so old standards of living, you should really go out more,” and “What is wrong with your friends?” are common answers to those questions by a young person trying to figure out why they’re not having sex as much as they should.
But having less sex doesn’t mean that they’re just lazy or stupid; it means that young people aren’t connecting with their partners on the emotional level that they could be. The reason for this can be twofold. First, sometimes people feel emotionally connected to others when in reality, there’s not a lot of connection at all.
Other times, there’s just not enough strength in a strong relationship to get two people to get sexually active. The fact is that we need a strong emotional connection to really make the connection with a partner and to make them feel wanted.
This means that while the lack of sex may be distressing, it is not the end of the world if you’ve been trying to find a good sex life. You simply need to try again. And while you’re doing that, you should keep thinking about how much sex you’re having.
This is one of the biggest reasons why young people are having less sex these days. Not only are they not connecting with their partners emotionally, but they are not connecting with their partners physically.
Often, the cause of this lack of physical intimacy between two people is that there is something else that the two people are missing. Instead of focusing on physical intimacy, they are focusing more on just getting through the day.
When you stop and think about why this happens, you’ll quickly realize that the thing that causes this lack of physical intimacy is stress. A lack of daily stress will typically force a person to think more about themselves rather than their partner, which can lead to an overall lack of physical intimacy.
While the lack of physical intimacy between two people is usually due to stress, it doesn’t mean that it has to be stress causing the lack of sex. For some people, it’s a factor that comes up every time they’re in bed together.
Even if a couple finds ways to reduce their stress, they may not be able to bring back the physical intimacy that they used to have when they were in high school or college. But they can learn how to both be in the moment and connect on an emotional level with each other, if they learn how to do that.